Take philosophically and take things too hard
Take philosophically and take things too hard
The essence of education is to promote the life to grow up.
Under what state does the life grow up? The life is growing up at happy unfolding state. Everybody thinks it happy, wants to find in Chen Ming’s song “ The happy native place “ ,Can leave always.
In fact the most complicated problem will often make it simple most, I summarize it into a word: ” open ” The heart is the good fortune, ” close ” The heart is the evil spirit.
Why “ Open ” Is the heart the good fortune? Look on the bright side of things. When people want to open, the door of soul is unlimited, everything sees clearly, are not afraid of.
The s fear come from not seeing clearly, want to open, there is not the fear, the mood will be better, good one hundred is good, people are in high spirits when involved in happy events. When thinking and opening, people’s sight is to stare at the bright place, the life is in a kind of open state, vigorous state.
Why “ Close ” Is the heart the evil spirit? Take things too hard. The door of soul has been closed, ” once bitten by a snake, is afraid of the rope in ten years ” ,Think this world is full of darkly. The door of soul is closed, everything is not seen clearly. Full of a kind of guard, anxious psychology because of seeing clearly, certainly the mood is not good.
Having ever seen a little philosophic theory story, the ones that said are: An old woman has two daughters, eldest daughter’s family washes the clothes for somebody, two daughters’ family sells the umbrella. Every rainy day, the old woman worries for the eldest daughter, is afraid that cannot dry the clothes, can’t earn money; Reach fine day is 2 daughters sad, afraid of going to sell the umbrella, can’t eke out a living. So immersing it in the agony worries day by day of old woman. Let an old Buddhist monk know, he said to old woman later: Elder person, congratulations! Look, your eldest daughter of the fine day family gets rich, the two daughters of yours in rainy day family gets rich, you are always really a good fortune! The old woman hears, suddenly see the light. No matter the fine or rainy days of old woman from then on, all live very happily.
Look, change an angle and think the question is totally two kinds of final results, two kinds of mental states.
We will often become that former old woman in life consciously. So when it is even attacked seriously with the setback that you meet difficulty, don’t waste time and effort trying to study an insignificant or insoluble problem, there is no harm in, change pieces of angle think oneself as one old Buddhist monk, mediate oneself, live, have bank that does not go perhaps.
A friend has told such a story: A young entrepreneur, very successful, do not give consideration to the family at all.
Get whom all entrepreneur get unsatisfied with still, think Heaven should give oneself to be more nearly.
One day, implored constantly by the wife, he takes wife and son the field to go for a drive. Who knows accidents happened to the car midway, lifts up the extremely delicate and dangerous situation at the cliff.
Face the life crisis, whole family’s unprecedented unity, uses up all intelligence, escaped danger at last.
The entrepreneur after escaping danger seems that it is general to remould oneself thoroughly, he thinks everything has been satisfied. Full of love to the lover, to the child, to all people, every whole day passes very happily.
It is as it always goes, that ” after surviving a great disaster, one is bound to have good fortune in later years ” too . Having listened to this story, savour carefully, this ” good fortune ” The word was actually given oneself by the person of the disaster, his attitude toward life has changed. After the disaster, think, turn on, people’s life state from a kind of narrow one, the state closed is turned into a kind of open vigorous state.
Take philosophically, will be full of sunshine in life.
The darkness is aptest to cause people’s fear, because in the darkness, nothing see clearly, because nothing see clearly have initiated and feared and anxious, once see clearly, full of brightness in the heart, is not just afraid of. In actual life, being in dire need of one can penetrate dark soul, the parents, this is particularly important, because parents not merely need to illuminate one’s own life, need to illuminate the child’s life.
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