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Take philosophically and take things too hard
The essence of education is to promote the life to grow up.

Under what state does the life grow up? The life is growing up at happy unfolding state. Everybody thinks it happy, wants to find in Chen Ming’s song “  The happy native place “  ,Can leave always.

In fact the most complicated problem will often make it simple most, I summarize it into a word: ” open ” The heart is the good fortune, ” close ” The heart is the evil spirit.

Why “  Open ” Is the heart the good fortune? Look on the bright side of things. When people want to open, the door of soul is unlimited, everything sees clearly, are not afraid of.

The s fear come from not seeing clearly, want to open, there is not the fear, the mood will be better, good one hundred is good, people are in high spirits when involved in happy events. When thinking and opening, people’s sight is to stare at the bright place, the life is in a kind of open state, vigorous state.

Why “  Close ” Is the heart the evil spirit? Take things too hard. The door of soul has been closed, ” once bitten by a snake, is afraid of the rope in ten years ” ,Think this world is full of darkly. The door of soul is closed, everything is not seen clearly. Full of a kind of guard, anxious psychology because of seeing clearly, certainly the mood is not good.

Having ever seen a little philosophic theory story, the ones that said are: An old woman has two daughters, eldest daughter’s family washes the clothes for somebody, two daughters’ family sells the umbrella. Every rainy day, the old woman worries for the eldest daughter, is afraid that cannot dry the clothes, can’t earn money; Reach fine day is 2 daughters sad, afraid of going to sell the umbrella, can’t eke out a living. So immersing it in the agony worries day by day of old woman. Let an old Buddhist monk know, he said to old woman later: Elder person, congratulations! Look, your eldest daughter of the fine day family gets rich, the two daughters of yours in rainy day family gets rich, you are always really a good fortune! The old woman hears, suddenly see the light. No matter the fine or rainy days of old woman from then on, all live very happily.

Look, change an angle and think the question is totally two kinds of final results, two kinds of mental states.

We will often become that former old woman in life consciously. So when it is even attacked seriously with the setback that you meet difficulty, don’t waste time and effort trying to study an insignificant or insoluble problem, there is no harm in, change pieces of angle think oneself as one old Buddhist monk, mediate oneself, live, have bank that does not go perhaps.

A friend has told such a story: A young entrepreneur, very successful, do not give consideration to the family at all.

Get whom all entrepreneur get unsatisfied with still, think Heaven should give oneself to be more nearly.

One day, implored constantly by the wife, he takes wife and son the field to go for a drive. Who knows accidents happened to the car midway, lifts up the extremely delicate and dangerous situation at the cliff.

Face the life crisis, whole family’s unprecedented unity, uses up all intelligence, escaped danger at last.

The entrepreneur after escaping danger seems that it is general to remould oneself thoroughly, he thinks everything has been satisfied. Full of love to the lover, to the child, to all people, every whole day passes very happily.

It is as it always goes, that ” after surviving a great disaster, one is bound to have good fortune in later years ” too . Having listened to this story, savour carefully, this ” good fortune ” The word was actually given oneself by the person of the disaster, his attitude toward life has changed. After the disaster, think, turn on, people’s life state from a kind of narrow one, the state closed is turned into a kind of open vigorous state.

Take philosophically, will be full of sunshine in life.

The darkness is aptest to cause people’s fear, because in the darkness, nothing see clearly, because nothing see clearly have initiated and feared and anxious, once see clearly, full of brightness in the heart, is not just afraid of. In actual life, being in dire need of one can penetrate dark soul, the parents, this is particularly important, because parents not merely need to illuminate one’s own life, need to illuminate the child’s life.

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Give up
A kind of mood is called to lose, a kind of beauty shouts and gives up. Give up quietly once, give up but one heart appearance have no chance friend of copy, give up, wait for but have emotion that reap, give up a certain expectation of soul, give up one state of mind grow, appear one sentimental on the heart each time while being a certain. Hinder oneself from go, resume while being sentimental while being such, within new space-time music hard of hearing first, say the story again. Because this is a kind of natural farewell and giving up, it is rich in detached spirit, therefore is sentimental beautifully.

Once there was one kind of feelings, wanted to let it become forever. Pass for a lot of years, just find it has already disappeared gradually. Just know and hold in hands originally, might not be what I wanted to really have; What I have, may not might not be that I am really imprinting the one at heart either; Need to give up consciously frequently in life, because there are too much beautiful things in this world. To having no happiness that has, I have been yearning for and pursuing earnestly all the time, in order to get, and busy. Oneself need really in fact, often in can understand after a lot of years. And to want have bright, I hold yardstick again, exist one perturbed afraiding.

Trouble that the setting sun sigh, flower apt to die bloom and fall, it is originally unhappy in life. Because while having, perhaps we are losing, and while giving up, perhaps we are regaining. To the all things, all of us may not have absolute assurance. Go to chase and have sedulously, it is very difficult to go out of the mistaken idea swayed by considerations of gain or loss.

Quiet and detached spirit needs distillation to appear in the life, the person understanding knows how to give up, the person of the true feelings knows how to die, the happy person knows how to be detached.

Though I do not come to this world because of you, am sentimentally attached to this world more because of you. If can be with you, I will have one’s heart filled with this world gratefully; If can’t be with you, I will go away quietly, but will not lose it to this love and gratitude of the world yet. Thank Heaven for letting you and me meet, take leave of you, finish a poem that God creates!

The life has give me endless grief, has given me an eternal answer too. Then, give up a safe part, it is detached to defend tenaciously one. No matter what changes the vulgar life of red this world is, no matter how the personal choice way is, even more no matter how the weight of thing held in hands is, although we escape being brave, although is sentimental and gratified! We walk to the depths of life as usual, we are giving up progressively as usual, strengthen progressively.

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